Step Three – Health Boundaries

Healthy boundaries. It’s is a term that gets thrown around a lot, but what exactly are healthy boundaries and how can we implement them in our lives? The answer lies in a simple metaphor that involves a cactus and a flower.

Imagine that you are a cactus and the people in your life are flowers. As a cactus, you thrive on lizard poop for food, love sunshine all year round, require only a thimble full of water, hate the shade, and prefer sand and rocks as your growing medium. On the other hand, your friend who is a flower might love composted leaves as their fertilizer, need soil rich in nutrients, enjoy four seasons, dislike direct sunlight, and love winter. 

Healthy boundaries are essential in promoting well-being in all our interactions with others. Taking care of your garden first will help you become a better version of yourself, and you’ll be better equipped to help others. Remember, healthy boundaries are like a cactus and a flower – two different plants that require different things to thrive. By respecting each other’s boundaries, we can create a garden that is beautiful, thriving, and sustainable.

Thank you for watching.

“Healthy relationships are relationships that encourage both people to be the best version of themselves.”

 

From my book, The Good Thing about Mortar Shells – Choosing Love Over Fear

My book

If you have enjoyed this mini-course and would like to take this journey further, check out my book The Good Thing About Mortar Shells: Choosing love over fear”.